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Emo Pictures - xXxRossAsphyxiatedxX
xXxRossAsphyxiatedxX
Posts: 45
How to stop jealousy and suicidal thoughts? Sep 19 2011, 05:03 PM
I have been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months, and it hit me today that I'm very jealous. He's flirting with another girl and takes the bus home with her. She's not that gorgeous, but she's everything I want to be. I have a low self esteem which is why I feel so jealous, I suppose. What can I possibly do? I can't end it cos I love him, but I don't want to feel this way anymore. Then besides that, I'm dealing with my own suicidal thoughts. Help me?

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Emo Pictures - JCGenocideofNormal
JCGenocideofNormal
Posts: 266
Sep 19 2011, 05:22 PM
Have you tried just talking to him about it? Not all interaction with another female is flirting. If he is..losing his feelings a bit, do something romantic with him. Remind him what gave you two the spark that started it all. :)
Emo Pictures - xXxRossAsphyxiatedxX
xXxRossAsphyxiatedxX
Posts: 45
Sep 19 2011, 06:33 PM
Yes I have. I confronted him, I don't keep anything a secret between us. I saw the messages myself, he was flirting with her, and did so last night as well when we were arguing about her. I cried in front of him, I couldn't hold it in. I'm so sad :(
nezzyneon
Posts: 896
Sep 19 2011, 07:50 PM
aww don't cry over him sweetie :( that is the worst kind of situation a girl can face...i have been their before too and the advice I can give you now is don't waste your time on a guy like that...because he is not worth crying over if he did such an act towards you. Somebody out there will care more and then he will realize what an a** he was when he did that to you. It just shows who you can trust vs those you can not. I hope you get through this and please don't think suicidal...because then you will never met the boy destined to be with you. ^_^ Hope this helps.
Emo Pictures - darkness-is-rising
darkness-is-rising
Posts: 3
Sep 19 2011, 09:05 PM
i know how it feels i treated my girlfriend so well and she left me for another guy and that night was one of the worst ever i wrecked a bike then got hit by a car busted out my teeth, tore my face up and spent the night in the hospitol this all happened last weekend and all i think about is her with him whenever i try to sleep all i see is them together and it gets to me and i end up crying myself to sleep its hard when some one u realy truly care about hurts u so bad and u get them out of your mind
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18353
Sep 20 2011, 04:01 PM
My advice now is to try and do something romantic/fun, but if this continues maybe he just isn't the one for you. You can only try so hard..
Emo Pictures - xXxRossAsphyxiatedxX
xXxRossAsphyxiatedxX
Posts: 45
Sep 20 2011, 04:39 PM
Thanks you guys :/ Well I broke up with him last night but today in the morning he begged & promised to change so we got back together. But I still feel a little hurt you know? Well let's see what happens >.<
Emo Pictures - xXxRossAsphyxiatedxX
xXxRossAsphyxiatedxX
Posts: 45
Sep 20 2011, 04:40 PM
Oh & Nick, I can't even imagine how much that hurt you. I'm here if you need to let your feelings out.
Emo Pictures - xXeMoRaCeRXx
xXeMoRaCeRXx
Posts: 18353
Sep 21 2011, 03:25 PM
Let us know how it goes :)

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